Have you tried letting go of expectations? Have you explored Wonderland?
For someone who is planned and organised, having expectations of outcomes, results and where you can end up, are expected.
This is where the problem lies, in your mind becuase you have already got the thing or result before you have even lived it. You know what your going to eat, what you going to do and how you will do it. So when any of those things don’t eventuate, all you end up with is disappointment.
For the last 5 weeks, my life has been in the hands of other people to organise and arrange. Now initially this was not my choice and later it became my choice.
It has meant that I have headed overseas at the last minute. It has meant that I travelled with my husband throughout outback Australia not having planned or thought about, where we would go or what we would do. I left it all up to him.
The great thing about not having any expectations, means there is no disappointment. You have nothing to compare the outcome or result with and you end up having an amazing time full of wonder and excitement.
The other great thing is, it is very freeing. Freeing of the constraints I used to put on my life.
Now I still like to organise and plan but just letting go and allowing what ever door to open and whatever happens to happen, is like exploring Wonderland.
I ask you to give it a go, let go and see what is possible in Wonderland where there aren’t expectations, just surprises.
Off through a new door, Tracy x