I said to my Mother once years ago, “Mum I wasn’t born with patience?” She said “no you weren’t!” So armed with that information, I wandered to the supermarket and scanned the shelves to buy patience? You can buy many things in life, new outfit, food, headache tablet to relieve pain, can you buy patience?
I hate to say it but the answer is no – you cant buy patience.
But you can find it.
Have I found it?
Yes, no and sometimes.
When I was younger I didn’t have patience, couldn’t find it at all.
Over time, I learned some skills to be patient. I learned to not get emotionally triggered by stuff. I learned to observe life. I learned to be present in the moment. I learned to gather the wisdom from situations. I learned to be in my authenticity – doing what is right for me.
There are still times I seem to lose patience, it occurs when my focus goes onto tomorrow rather than now.
My best advice is this, you wont find patience on the supermarket shelf,
but you can find it today, right now, by being focused on ‘what is’ going on for you right now. It is that simple.
Patient Tracy xx